Author uses a brutally honest analogy to help other men understand how our culture enables sexual assault.
Every man should read this.
Many men don't understand the constant anxiety countless women experience every day surrounding the fear of being sexually assaulted.
This lack of empathy has been in the forefront of the American consciousness over the last few years, especially since Donald Trump entered the center of the political arena. He's been accused by multiple women of sexual assault and rape, was friends with a man accused of sex trafficking minors, caught on tape bragging about sexually abusive behavior, and has supported men for Senate and the Supreme Court who've been credibly accused of assault as well.
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The shocking thing about Trump is not that a man in power has attempted to wield it over women — it's that his actions haven't deterred his supporters.
A.R. Moxon, author of the upcoming book, "The Revisionaries," came up with a brilliant, yet brutal metaphor to help men understand the constant fear and anxiety that potential sexual abuse causes women. It also helps them understand how women feel when powerful men such as Trump are able to get away with the abuse because the system supports them.
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Hi, guys. Imagine if one day you got kicked in the nuts, really hard, on purpose.
You doubled over. Felt the pain. Nearly passed out. Nearly puked.
Then you got kicked again. And again.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine it happened to you when you were 12.
Imagine it was an 38 year old woman who did it.
Imagine it was your mother's friend and business partner.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine you told your parents and they didn't believe you.
Imagine they never mentioned it again.
You learned to keep quiet about it.
You learned to be scared.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine that later your father explained that women just wanted to kick men in the nuts, so as a boy you had to be careful.
Imagine he had very detailed practical advice on this.
Imagine you started spending your life planning on avoiding being kicked in the nuts.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine you became aware that women, including much older women—even elderly women—were always looking at your nuts. Women on the street would follow you. They'd tell you what a nice package you have. They'd tell you you'd be hot if you just showed off your nuts a little more.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine you started wearing clothes to hide them. You bought uncomfortable protective gear.
All the posters and advertisements in all the magazines featured men's crotches, though frequently not their heads.
Women's feet were frequently featured in prominent juxtaposition.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine most of your friends all told you about getting kicked in the nuts.
Imagine none of them had ever told anybody else.
Imagine all the older girls at school would make jokes about kicking you in the nuts.
Imagine all the laughter. The jokes are all so funny.
Jokes.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine you went to church and were told that God made girls to want your body, so you should protect your nuts at all costs.
Imagine the minister said it was your responsibility as a maturing boy not to do anything that would make girls think about kicking you in the nuts.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine you found a girlfriend, and you loved each other.
One night, you were fooling around and she kicked you as hard as she could in the nuts, and it all came rushing back.
Imagine she acted like obviously you wanted to be kicked in the nuts, mocked you for getting emotional.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine you told the police, and they asked you what you'd been wearing before she kicked you in the nuts. Asked if you'd had a drink. Asked what you might have been doing before. Had you been naked? Kissing?
You had.
You left.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine there were laws that said that if a wife kicked her husband in the nuts it wasn't assault.
Imagine you heard about men with ruptured testicles who had to pay for their own forensic reports
Imagine you saw statistics showing only 1% of kickings resulted in conviction.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
He used the analogy to explain how women felt about the Brock Turner rape case.
Imagine a girl was caught kicking a boy repeatedly in the nuts while he was passed out drunk.
Imagine the judge let her off, because she was worried about the damage to the girl's future prospects. She was a star swimmer with a scholarship.
Imagine this happened all the time.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine if one day men all started talking about how almost all of them had, at one point or another, been kicked in the nuts.
Imagine if women's main concern was what false accusation might do to their reputations, and whether this new honesty might ruin the mystery of sex.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine a woman ran for President.
Imagine audio came out of her bragging about making it a regular practice to kick men in the nuts without even introducing herself.
Imagine she lost no support for this.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine she claimed the men accusing her were lying.
Imagine she said they were too ugly to kick.
Imagine there had never been a male president.
Imagine she ran against the first major-party male candidate.
Imagine he had experience, and she had none.
Imagine she won anyway.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
The analogy also applies to Trump's support of Judge Roy Moore and Brett Kavanaugh.
Imagine she supported a Senate candidate known for kicking young boys in the testicles.
Imagine she nominated a judge.
Imagine the judge was accused of kicking a boy in the nuts.
Imagine the accuser had to hide from all the death threats as a result.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine the man who had been kicked testified, providing sworn testimony.
Imagine the judge gave an vindictive rant in response.
Imagine he was derided for providing no evidence.
Imagine if they looked for no evidence.
Imagine the judge was given an op-ed to explain herself.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Imagine the President mocked the accuser in font of a crowd, and the crowd laughed and clapped.
Imagine the judge was confirmed.
Imagine the deciding vote was a man.
Can you imagine?
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
Men, imagine if you got kicked in the nuts and it made you pregnant and then the government forced you to carry the baby to full-term.
Now imagine that being kicked in the nuts might result in you having to create, in your body, a genetic replication of the person who kicked you.
And imagine that the judge intended to make sure you'd have to carry it.
Imagine that was the *reason* she was chosen.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
I can't imagine women's rage today, but this exercise, while abstract, helped me get nearer to it than I'd been.
Be kind to women, guys. Today and every day.
If you see somebody being cruel to women, or abusive, or violent?
Kick 'em in the nuts.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018
By the way it's 100% insane that this issue seems to require an analogy to draw a sharper focus on how wrong our society presently is, but here were are.
— A.R. Moxon (Julius Goat) (@JuliusGoat) October 6, 2018