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NICU nurse adopts 14-year-old patient who delivered triplets alone

“I knew it would be impossible to find a foster home that would take all four of them. No one was going to take a teen mom and her preemie triplets.”

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NICU nurse adopts teen with three babies.

Having your first baby is a scary experience. Everything is new—you've quite literally never done this before—not to mention an entire human is going to be removed from your body one way or another. Childbirth, no matter how your baby leaves your body, is not for the weak. But imagine giving birth alone to not just one baby, but three, all at the same time. Then imagine doing that feat at the age of 14.

Shariya Small experienced that scenario in a hospital in Indiana, and her nurse Katrina Mullen took note. Small's babies were premature, born at just 26 weeks, when the average gestation for triplets is 33 weeks, according to ReproductiveFacts.org. Due to their early birth, the babies, Serenitee, Samari and Sarayah, had to stay in the NICU at Community Hospital North in Indianapolis for more than five months, according to Today.com.

During their time in the NICU, Mullen noticed the young mom visited her babies alone, not appearing to have much of a support system. “She’d be there alone for days at a time sitting at her babies’ bedside,” Mullen told Today.com.

The pair got to know each other over the months that the babies were in the hospital, but Small continued to be reluctant to open up about her family life. That changed after she found out that Mullen had her first child at 16 and had given it up for adoption. Their experiences bonded the two moms, and Mullen began helping to care for the babies and Small by giving her advice and showing her how to properly care for the infants.

Eventually, Mullen gave Small her phone number before the babies were discharged from the hospital. It quickly became apparent that Small did not have a support system, as she called Mullen often asking for advice. Out of concern, the nurse went to visit Small an hour away, where she was living with a family member.

The condition of the home was concerning enough, but Mullen became even more worried when she saw how thin Small's son Samari was. It turns out he had to be admitted to the hospital, which prompted a visit from Child Protective Services, who determined that Small and her three infants would need to enter foster care. She gave the social worker Mullen's information and things began to fall into place.

Listen to Small and Mullen explain their unique story below:

This article originally appeared last year.

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Dad who can't swim rescues his toddler when their car is engulfed by flood waters

Nearby homeowners took the pair in to help them.

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Dad who can't swim saves toddler from car during flood

Flooding can be extremely dangerous, especially flash flooding that seems to come out of nowhere during a torrential downpour. That type of flooding can be deceiving because it can take over roads so quickly that you don't realize it's flooded as badly as it is. Navigating flooding roads with your young child in the backseat is a recipe for a panic attack if things go wrong.

During a particularly nasty downpour, a new dad found himself in a stressful situation with his 11-month-old toddler while attempting to make their way home. Andre Randles lives in England with his partner Paige Newsome and their child Luca. The town had been getting snow and pretty significant rain which led to Randles being sent on another route due to road closures.

But the road closures sent him on a course that resulted in driving straight into a flooded area with no way to turn around. The water covered road he and his baby were on had an unexpected and sudden dip in it which resulted in the vehicle sinking quickly. Randles didn't have time to think, just act and it's a good thing, too. The father of one doesn't know how to swim and the realization that he and his child could drown if swimming were required may have caused him to freeze with fear.


"As soon as I saw danger, saw the water coming into the car and we were no longer floating and starting to sink, something switched in me. I thought I needed to get out and get Luca out," Randles tells the BBC.

That's exactly what he did. Randles rolled down the car windows climbing out before pulling his baby out through the back window in water that came to the man's chest. It was mere seconds before the entire car was almost completely submerged in the flood waters.

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Randles recalls to SkyNews, "I saw the water rising and it just clicked in my head I need to get me and my baby out of here safe so I wound down the window, climbed out wound down his window pulled him out and the water was about chest high. So I carried him above my head to make sure he hasn't touched any of the water or anything to try to keep him dry and warm."

The deep flood waters took Randles by surprise as he shares with SkyNews that he didn't feel like it was raining heavily at the time and had driven in much heavier rain. Pictures of the vehicle began to spread on social media which prompted Newsome to comment on one of them identifying the family's vehicle.

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"This is our car, such a scary experience for my partner having to pull our 11 month old baby whilst the water was flooding into the car," the young mom reveals. "Calderdale Council need to sort this out ASAP! They have been getting notified about this part of Woodhouse Road multiple times by the owners of the house next to wear our car is parked."

The entire ordeal terrified the young family, "just imagine if my partner didn’t think fast enough to get the windows open to climb out and then get my son out. I dread to think," Newsome shares in another comment about her car.


The area where this happened is prone to flooding according to residents interviewed by news stations local to them, and residents who comment on the Calderdale Council Facebook page. They've been asking for something to do be done to address the excessive flooding but so far they haven't had much luck. Thankfully for Randles, he was able to escape the flooding and seek temporary refuge with a nearby resident who allowed them to get dry while waiting for rescue vehicles to reach them.

"To think that I could've actually lost them both makes me a bit emotional, yeah it's really scary. It's just a horrible thing to think about isn't it," Newsome reflects to the outlet.

Horrible indeed, hopefully the family never has to experience such a close call like this again and baby Luca will remain none the wiser.

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Woman makes entire Thanksgiving dinner on $20 budget with ingredients from Dollar Tree

She wants people to know they can still have a special meal even if money is tight.

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Make and entire Thanksgiving dinner for $20

Thanksgiving is right around the corner and while it can be a time for joy, for other's it can be a time for stress. Not just stress due to spending an extended amount of time around family members you haven't seen in a while or shuffling from house to house. Some people feel extra stress because they can't quite figure out how they're going to provide a special holiday dinner.

Food banks and churches often give out meal boxes for families that may be struggling financially but there can be barriers to getting the boxes. Sometimes the lines are long which causes extreme difficulty for elderly, disabled or people with chronic pain to participate. For others it could be they're living in temporary housing like a extended stay hotel so they don't have access to a full size stove to cook a large turkey.

While others simply may feel that though they need the help, someone may need it more so they stay home instead of risking taking away from other people. These are all things Rebecca, the woman behind Dollar Tree Dinners tries to keep in mind when creating the healthiest meals she can for those on a budget or living in a food desert.

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Every year Rebecca tries to come up with tasty meals specifically for the Thanksgiving holiday. This year, the budget food influencer decided to increase her own challenge by creating a three course meal on a $20 budget. For this small budget to work she went to her favorite store for affordable food items–Dollar Tree, and from the looks of it, her meal did not disappoint. She shared all the ingredients and the finished product on social media, the video was viewed more than 1.5 million times and the comments were filled with people thanking her.

Things this year are a little tight for everyone, even those that may not need help from a food pantry are feeling the pinch. Splurging on a large ham or turkey and all the fixings could put some people in a bit of a bind, even though this Thanksgiving dinner is at a historically low price when adjusting for inflation. The "historically low" price may not feel so low for everyone which is why Rebecca's work around for this three course Thanksgiving meal may be the perfect work around.


@dollartreedinners $20 Dollar Tree Thanksgiving Dinner! The ingredients: Swanson Chicken broth $1.25 (Optional ingredient, can be omitted) Kraft Ranch $1.25 Italian seasoned breadcrumbs $1.25 Kraft Mac & Cheese $1.25 Turkey Stuffing Mix $1.25 Idahoan Original Mashed Potatoes (the unflavored big bag) $1.25 Pioneer Roasted turkey Gravy mix $1.25 Dried cranberries $1.25 French style Green Beans (Could also swap for frozen) $1.25 2 cans of turkey $2.50 Milk $1.25 Margarine $1.25 Sugar cookie mix $1.25 Werther's Chewy Caramel candies $1.25 Apple Pie filling $1.25 Total cost $20 Optional extras to add on if desired: Large casserole dish $1.25 (for making the casserole and easy clean up) A Block of Cheddar cheese (for the mac & cheese balls) $1.25 Extra packet of sugar cookie mix (for the caramel apple cookie bars) $1.25 The menu: Appetizer: Mac & Cheese Croquettes with Ranch for dipping Dinner: "Best of Thanksgiving" Casserole Dessert: Caramel Apple Cookie Bars #dollartreefood #dollartreegroceryhaul #dollartreethanksgiving #thanksgivingonabudget #budgetholidaymeals #howtoeatforcheap #feedafamily ♬ original sound - Dollar Tree Dinners

The menu consists of Mac & Cheese Croquettes with Ranch dipping sauce, a "Best of Thanksgiving" casserole, and caramel apple cookie bars for dessert. Rebecca explains in a longer video shared on YouTube that she only allows herself to use oil, salt and pepper from home, everything else has to be budgeted into the $20 to purchase from Dollar Tree.

If you're big on having turkey for the holiday, no worries, the turkey is included in the casserole. The casserole consists of a layer of mashed potatoes, drained French cut green beans, canned turkey, gravy, and stuffing mix.


@dollartreedinners Thanksgiving Dinner you can make for under $12! Ingredients: 1 package Idahoan Original Mashed potatoes 1 can french style green beans (can also use frozen) 2 cans of turkey (drained, broth reserved) 1 packet Pionner roasted turkey gravy mix 1 box turkey stuffing mix Dried cranberries (soaked in water to rehydrate) Milk Margarine Chicken Broth Total cost $11.25 Prepare the mashed potaotes, follow the package instructions but substitute some or all of the water with chicken broth. Season well with salt & pepper and spread evenly into a baking dish as layer 1. Spread on a can of drained french style green beans (if desired, this layer can also be green bean casserole by mixing 2 cans of green beans with 1 can of cream of mushroom soup and some french fried onions) Drain the canned turkey, saving the broth for the gravy, shred the turkey well with a fork and spread it over the green beans. Use the reserved turkey broth and water to prepare the roasted turkey gravy according to the package instructions. Pour the gravy evenly over the turkey. Follow the stuffing mix instructions substituting all or some of the water with chicken broth and fold in the soaked cranberries. Spread the stuffing layer evenly over the casserole as the final layer. Dot the top of the stuffing layer with small pats of margarin and bake at 400 degrees for 30 minutes or until the top is golden brown and the edges are bubbling. Enjoy! #thanksgivingonabudget #budgetfriendlymeals #dollartreerecipes #thanksgivingcasserole #budgetcooking #comfortfood #casserolerecipes #holidaycooking #3coursemeal ♬ original sound - Dollar Tree Dinners

"Ten ingredients at $1.25 a piece means that just to make this casserole you're looking at $11.25 cents, which is an absolute steal because this would definitely feed four people with a significant amount of leftovers. And if you've been feeling like you're not going to be able to have a Thanksgiving dinner this year because you can't afford to make one, hopefully you can afford to make this," Rebecca says at the end of the video sharing the recipe for the casserole.

The entire dinner looked delicious and people were sharing their plans to give it a try while others thanked her for putting together an affordable meal, with one person writing, "I'm gonna make this and put them in smaller loaf pans to freeze for when I'm needing something warm and cozy."


@dollartreedinners I made a 3-course Thanksgiving dinner on a $20 budget from Dolalr Tree, starting with these crispy and creamy fried mac & Cheese bites. They're crunchy on the outside, tender and cheesy on the inside and perfect with ranch for dipping. Stay tuned for the main dish and dessert. Ingredients: 1 box Kraft Thick & Creamy mac & cheese 1 & 1/2 cups of water 1/2 cup of milk (plus extra for breading) 2 tablespoons of margarine Italian seasoned breadcrumbs Oil for frying Ranch dressing (for dipping) Instructions: 1) In a pot, combien the macaroni, water, milk, margarine and cheese powder from the box. 2) Bring to a boil, stirring occassionally, then cover and simmer for 8 minutes continuing to stir occassionally 3) Transfer to a shallow container and refrigerate for at least 4 hours (preferrably overnight) 4) Remove mac from the container and cut it into 12 cubes 5) Coat each cube in italian breadcrubs, dip in milk, then coat again in breadcrumbs. Compress the cubes into balls while breading to shape them. 6) Heat 1 inch of oil in a pot and fry the mac and cheese balls in two batchdes for 3 to 4 minutes or until golden brown. Drain on paper towels. Serve with ranch for dipping. Enjoy! #budgetfriendlymeals #dollartreefinds #thanksgivingonabudget #thanksgivingdinner #friedmacncheese #budgetcooking #dollartreemeals #3coursemeal #thanksgivingrecipes #holidaycooking #easyappetizers #budgetthanksgiving #tiktokfoodie ♬ original sound - Dollar Tree Dinners

Another person shares, "As someone who mixes everything on their plate at Thanksgiving, this is GENIUS!! Much more affordable and far less wasteful than making each separate dish!"

One mom is grateful for the recipes, "It’s just me and my son, I’m about to have surgery so finances are incredibly tight. Thank you SO MUCH for this."

Someone else reveals, "I’ll be alone on Thanksgiving this year. I love the idea of the casserole so I can still have a Thanksgiving but not spend a ton of money on it since it’s just me."


A few people who know the struggle of not having money for holiday dinners chime in to praise Rebecca for thinking of people who aren't in a financial position to purchase ingredients for a meal, one of them writes, "Truly makes me teary-eyed. We are financially able to make thanksgiving dinner how we’d like, but the fact that you make this possible for SO many…you’re a treasure on this app." The other commenter shares, "I don't know why I'm crying but there you have it. I thankfully no longer struggle to feed my family but for those who do, you are helping to feed their tummies, their souls, and their dignity."

Rebecca's meals may not be for everyone but the ones that need it can purchase the ingredients and serve their family with no one ever being the wiser. Thanks to her Dollar Tree menu, some families who didn't think they could afford a Thanksgiving meal but now can thanks to this thoughtful meal can now add this to their list of things to be thankful for.

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Scientists train giant rats to be detectives, sniffing out smuggled exotic animals

Watch out poachers, you're about to be ratted out.

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Giant detective rats are helping catch exotic animal traffickers

Rats are an animal that people either love or hate, though it's safe to assume that most people would probably hate to come across the rodents in their home. But all rats aren't created equal, some were born to be...well, lab rats. While people may not like the critters, rats are extremely smart, which is why many of them end up in a lab but they're not always confined to the brightly lit sterile environment.

Sure some lab rats are destined to spend their time solving puzzles for treats, but some get to explore nature as part of their official duties. African giant pouched rats are getting a cute little vest, a backpack and a ball that signals their handlers to go work as rodent detectives. These furry guys are learning how to exercise their extreme sense of smell to help detect the scent of exotic animals being smuggled out of Africa.

Poaching and smuggling has been a problem that countries in Africa have been trying to address for a while. Poachers hunt animals like elephants for their ivory tusks, and rhinoceroses for their horns, often killing the animal in order to take their tusks and horns to sell them. But those aren't the only things getting smuggled off of the continent.

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Pangolins, a small scaled mammal is one of the most trafficked mammals in the world according to APOPO, the Tanzanian nonprofit training the rats. In addition to the pangolins, elephant tusks and rhinoceros horns, the rats are also being trained to detect African Blackwood which is illegally logged.

The rats are trained using target training and reinforced with treats before being introduced to items that they should not be targeting as a method of "discrimination training." Essentially discrimination training is teaching the rats to not respond to things that aren't on the list. Now, while it would be adorable for the little vests the rats wear to say something like "detective" or "rat police," they don't. Their vests aren't for identification, they serve a practical nature.

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The snug little vest the African giant rats wear have a little ball on them that looks like a bell you'd find on a cat collar. The rats are trained to pull on the ball when they detect a forbidden item. Once the ball is pulled, it sends a beeping sound to their handlers to alert them that something is being smuggled. Right now research is still in the trial stages, but the smart rats have shown great progress being able to identify the target items against over 150 non-target items like socks, or a watch.

Soon the detective rats will take on their biggest test yet, the airport in Dar es Salaam, Tanzania. Once the rats show they can correctly identify this exotic contraband in a large setting with lots of different competing smells, their job will move to the final stage–airport security. Well...sort of. The clever rats will be "operational" in the next couple of years in travel spaces like airports hoping to stop exotic traffickers in their tracks.

Who knew police dogs would face competition of giant rats the size of cats in the near future? There's plenty of room for all types of working furry creatures so long as one of the rats doesn't try to hitch a ride instead of reporting back to it's handlers.

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