Man runs into Willem Dafoe on the street and they end up having an incredible conversation
"What do you do for a living?"
Nobody wants to be asked "where do you see yourself in five years." Not even Willem Dafoe.
There are just certain actors who have such recognizable faces they canβt go anywhere without being spotted. Willem Dafoe, who has played in countless roles over his decades long career, is undoubtedly one of them. You see him on the street, and youβd be hard pressed not to do a double take.
Which is why people were flabbergasted to see a TikTok clip of him being asked βwhat do you do for a living?β by a complete stranger. Comments like βdue just asked the most recognizable man in the world who he wasβ and βnot knowing Willem Dafoe is a crime!β were plentiful.
Granted, folks didnβt realize that this stranger, named Khan, regularly stops celebrities to interview them on the streetβincluding Adam Sandler recentlyβin addition to average joes he meets on the street. So βnot recognizingβ Dafoe was part of the bit, likely to make him feel more at ease. And thank goodness he incorporated that strategy, because it resulted in an amazing conversation between the two.
After Dafoe politely answered Khanβs initial question (βIβm an actorβ) he then got to share what he loved most about the job: βnothingβs ever the same.β He also politely declined to offer advice for any aspiring actors, since βeverybodyβs gotta find their own way.β Honestly, thatβs solid insight for anyone. Outside opinions are helpful, but they arenβt everything, especially when it comes to creating your own unique life.
Perhaps the real kicker came when Khan asked, βhow do you wanna be rememberedβ as well as the question that has been the bane of many a job interviewee: βwhere do you see yourself in five years from now?β
@hikhann_ What do you do for a living? #foryoupageΒ #viralvideoΒ #foryourepageΒ #fypΒ #foryouΒ #viralΒ #whatdoyoudoforalivingΒ β¬ original sound - Khan
For both, Dafoe had similar answers. βI donβt think about that,β and βI donβt knowβ¦I have a hard time thinking beyond tomorrow.β This might seem counterintuitive for a man who likely has at least a couple of his upcoming years plotted out with projects, and certainly goes against the notion that you need to have a future vision for yourself in order to be happy and successful. But itβs a good reminder that no matter what our goals are, none of us fully knows what the future holds, and therefore can give ourselves permission to stay within the present moment.
Forbes contributor Liz Ryan once eloquently shared that the whole βfive-year-plan paradigmβ, as she called it, is extremely outdated, as it βcomes from a day when life was either more stable and predictable than it is now or we were all deluding ourselves that it was.β She also noted the fear threaded throughout it, saying that people use a five year plan as a way to βclaim a little powerβ against all the uncertainty of grown-up life. A much healthier strategy, she argued, would be to βknow what you're passionate about, have some rough ideas about how to get closer to your passion over time and then react, react and keep reacting to shifts in the wind!β Dafoe certainly seems to agree with this notion.
Basically, for anyone who shudders at the thought of this question, whether at a job interview or just as theyβre navigating everyday life, know that itβs not always important to have all the answers.