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Skip Black Friday and shop discounts at these companies making a positive impact on the world

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While Thanksgiving is meant to celebrate all we have to be grateful for, it's also the unofficial kick-off to the holiday shopping season. Last year, Americans spent about $1 trillion on gifts. What if we all used that purchasing power to support companies that reduce inequality, alleviate poverty, fight climate change, and help make the world better?

Between Black Friday and Cyber Monday, the coming days will have spending on everyone's brains. But in an effort to promote the companies doing good for the world, DoneGood founder Cullen Schwarz created Shop for Good Sunday (which falls on December 1 this year.)

Dubbed the "Alternate Black Friday," Shop for Good Sunday is dedicated to encouraging people to shop brands that do good for people and the planet. It also serves as a reminder to support local businesses making a positive impact in their communities.

While Shop for Good Sunday technically falls on a single day, this year, participating ethical and sustainable brands are running discounts for the whole week prior.

Where you invest your dollars matters, and there's great potential to put that money to good use if you know how. Check out these six brands that sell amazing products while also making a positive impact on the world. You'll not only be getting your loved ones meaningful gifts, but also making the world a brighter place along the way.

Isn't that what the holidays are really about?


Functional outdoor gear

Parque Rain Shell

Cotopaxi makes unique, sustainable outdoor gear, like this Parque rain shell, while keeping ethics at the core of its business model. The company gives 1% of its annual revenue to organizations that fight poverty and improve the human condition.

Modern furniture

Simbly Coffee Table

Simbly is a direct-to-consumer furniture company that sells modern, sustainable products built in the U.S. made of FSC-certified wood. And for every product sold, the company plants a tree.

Beautiful jewelry

Tho Bar & Geo Buffalo Horn Earrings

Hathorway is a jewelry company that handcrafts its accessories with materials like ethically-sourced up-cycled buffalo horns and handwoven rattan. Each item is designed and assembled in the U.S. with thoughtfully selected materials sourced from Vietnam, Thailand, and South Korea. A portion of the company's profit goes to initiatives that empower young, underprivileged women.

Luxe linens

Bamboo Charcoal Sheet Set

Ettitude crafts its home textiles from CleanBamboo fabric, a unique material made from 100% organic bamboo, the most resource-efficient plant on the planet. It also requires significantly less water to grow and produce than traditional cotton textiles. The products are also ethically made and come in packaging made from extra pieces of fabric.

Unique wood wares

The Charcuterie Board

Would Works creates and sells beautiful household wood products handcrafted by people experiencing homelessness or living in poverty. The company works with its artisans to provide job skills, financial literacy, and an income so they can reach their financial goals.

Empowering candles

She Inspires Candle

Prosperity Candle products are created by women refugees building a brighter future for themselves and their families. Each candle is made of soy-blend wax with essential oils hand poured in a well-designed container that is easily refilled or repurposed.

Find more of these great deals at DoneGood!

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Teachers share the 6 subtle, but powerful signs that a parent truly cares about their kid

"When the child speaks, the adult listens. When the adult speaks, the child listens."

Family helping kids with homework at a table.

Few people spend more meaningful time with kids than their teachers. From the classroom to the playground to after-school pickup, teachers witness daily moments that often reveal what a child’s home life is like…and which parents are consistently showing up for their kids.

In a viral Reddit thread, user @allsfairinwar asked educators:

“Teachers of Reddit: What are some small, subtle ways you can tell a child’s parent really cares about them?”

Thousands of educators—from kindergarten teachers to high school staff—offered thoughtful, heartfelt insight. Their answers reveal that caring isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being present.

Below are some of the most touching observations from teachers who see these small moments every day.

Parents who show up emotionally

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They pause and show interest—even when busy.

"When the parent stops and actually looks at their kid's art/work/listens about their day before heading home. I know everyone gets busy but damn don't shove the art your kid is proud of right in their bag without first looking at it. We do the same piece of art for a week. They spent 2 hours on that, spare 2 minutes to show them their effort is worth something to you." —@Worldly_Might_3183
They listen when their child speaks.
"When the child speaks, the adult listens. When the adult speaks, the child listens." —@homerbartbob
They know the details of their child’s day.

"When the parents are familiar with the child’s friends and talk to their child’s friends, I know they’re listening to their child talk about their day at school. Or when parents let slip that they got a full recap of something I said or that happened at school. I know they are having conversations with their child at home, and paying attention." —@Pinkrivrdolphn

Parents who celebrate their child’s joy

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They let their child share what they love—even the random stuff.

"When the kid is happy/quick to tell their parents about things. Not just serious or important things, but just random bullsh*t. Do I care about Minecraft? Not really. Do I care that my kid cares about Minecraft? Very much. Lay it on me kid. Spare no detail." —@IJourden
They greet them with genuine enthusiasm.
"The moment that a parent greets the child at the end of the day is very telling. Some parents clearly want to know all about their child's day and connect with them, some don't." —@Smug010
They speak lovingly about their own kids.
"When I make positive contact home and the parent speaks glowingly about their own kid. It’s great to hear." —@outtodryclt

Parents who teach independence and accountability

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They let kids fail…and learn.

"They let their kids fail and experience natural consequences. Good parents are preparing their children to be adults, and part of that is learning responsibility and accountability. Let your kids make mistakes and learn from them!" —@oboe_you_didnt
They don’t make excuses for harmful behavior.
"A good parent knows that their kids isn't perfect and if the kid does something wrong (like hitting or bullying other kids) they don't look for excuses, or for how the other kid provoked that behavior, but helps their kid understand why their behavior was hurtful." —@SadlyNotDannyDeVito
That includes basic hygiene.
"It doesn’t always mean everything is perfect at home, but a child who is well-groomed is always a good sign. That doesn’t always mean the most fashionable clothes or perfect hair, just that the child is clean, their clothes are clean and appropriate for the weather. Also when a child knows how to celebrate their own wins and isn’t afraid of making a mistake or being wrong- that shows that their parents have modeled good emotional regulation." —@itscornelectric

Parents who make home feel safe

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Kids who feel safe look forward to time off.

"You can tell a lot about home life based on students behavior the week leading up to a break. If they are happy/excited/giddy/endearingly obnoxious I know they are going somewhere safe to someone who cares. The students who don’t have that are often increasingly anxious/angry/withdrawn/acting out." —@pulchritudinousprout

Parents who model kindness

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They talk to their kids about empathy.

"A few years back, I heard a parent ask their kid if they found someone to be kind to today. That made a real impact on me. Now I try to remind my own kids to 'find someone to be kind to' if I’m doing drop off and/or ask 'Who were you kind to today?' after school." —@AspiringFicWriter
And about healthy communication
"They ask thoughtful questions. Even something that seems routine to adults like, 'How is/was your day?' I'm in elementary, and it's appropriate for kids to talk mostly about themselves. Kids who ask thoughtful questions are doing so because it's consistently modeled. It's also not very common (again, age appropriate egocentrism) so it stands out." —@mundane-mondays

Parents who are active in their kid's education

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"When you know they're being exposed to reading at home. Maybe they can read at a higher level or they're mastering their sight words. For students with learning disabilities, the kids are trying their hardest to read, using context clues, using pictures and making up a story, or even making different voices for characters. When I was in a low functioning Autistic support room, this one little boy couldn't form words, but he made noises is different voices and used dramatic face expressions on each page to represent characters talking." —@Mediocre-Bee-9262
This includes speech therapy, occupational therapy, vision/hearing checks, or specialized support for disabilities. Teachers notice when a parent advocates.
"They get them services when they’re struggling. I work with kids with disabilities and the learning outcomes/experience of school (and by extension, the greater world) for kids who have their needs met is far different to those who don’t. The number of parents who respond to a teacher saying 'I think it might be worth John seeing an OT/a speech therapist/ getting his eyes checked' with something along the lines of 'f*ck you, what would you know?' Is astounding. The parents who make appointments, share information from specialists with the school, and are proactive about their children’s abilities or disabilities - their kids see such improvements." —@prison_industrial_co

A final thought

When teachers describe what “good parenting” looks like, they aren’t talking about perfect lunches, straight-A report cards, or over-the-top involvement. They’re talking about curiosity, healthy communication, accountability, kindness, and presence

None of this requires perfection. Just intentional love, repeated in little ways.
This article appeared in June. It has been updated.
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David Blaine blew everyone's minds with a card trick on an airplane.

Many of us first glimpsed the brilliance of magician/illusionist David Blaine in his first ABC special, 1997’s Street Magic. Everything about the documentary felt unique: his deadpan delivery and approachable demeanor, the cinéma vérité feel of the production, the fly-on-the-wall atmosphere of watching Blaine perform card tricks for both strangers and celebrities. (There was even an on-screen interview cameo from a young Leonardo DiCaprio.)

Since then, of course, Blaine has become one of the biggest names in the illusion game, even as he’s expanded beyond that format to attempt an array of shocking public stunts—like 2020’s "Ascension," in which he live-streamed himself floating into the air above Arizona while holding onto a cluster of helium-filled balloons. At this point, the dude is way beyond "Is this your card?"

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Blaine on a plane

That said, he’s still a master in that arena, as evidenced by a recent viral TikTok clip. User assssshleigh94 posted a plane-filmed video in which they happen to be seated next to Blaine himself during a flight to Cancun, Mexico. The magician takes command of his immediate area, recruiting his neighbors for their assistance in a mind-boggling card trick that left everyone confused and laughing hysterically.

Blaine starts off the clip asking if everyone can see, including the people seated behind him. He has Assssshleigh94 hold an ace of diamonds between pinched fingers and, after some logistical sleight of hand, ends by asking the cameraperson their "favorite number up to 10." They respond "7," leading to Blaine’s big reveal: "Because he said 7—did you see what I was doing with my left hand? You couldn’t see from there. You might be able to see it on [the video]. I was pulling the 7s out of the deck. You just called out '7.' When you did that, I pulled the 7s out and I put them [points down to the deck]."

@assssshleigh94

When you sit next to Mr Magic himself on the way to Cancun, Mexico🪄@DavidBlaine #magic #jetblue #davidblaine #nowyouseeme #cancun

Internet comments are their own kind of magic

How did Blaine do this? I have no answers, but it feels like some kind of Jedi mind trick.

Someone in the TikTok comments wrote, "[T]he trick is called Double Lift, google it," but several other people said they wouldn’t dare. "Why would I do that[?]" someone responded. "I don’t wanna know how magic works."

Agreed. I don’t want to ruin the fun for myself by thinking too hard about it. Instead of analyzing the video frame by frame, we can just enjoy more of the comments, which are also quite entertaining. Here are some highlights:

"(As they’re getting off the plane) 'you all thought we were going to Hawaii? Would you be impressed if we were in Texas?'”

"David Blaine slowly morphing into Jeff Goldblum"

"This is probably the safest flight one can be on"

"Blaine: how many wings does a plane have? Look out the window.. 😳"

"David Plaine"

"I’ve never been offered this seat upgrade option"

"I love how he IMMEDIATELY goes to perform another trick to another passenger before they are even done reacting! Haha"

Amazingly, according to assssshleigh94, this wasn’t Blaine’s only card trick of the day. Responding to the last comment above, they wrote, "Seriously the entire flight! We never once asked for tricks. [H]e was so excited to share them with us!!"

What a gift it is to be able to blow people’s minds everywhere you travel. David Blaine, never change.

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Gen Xers reveal the 'outdated' habits they can't unlearn from the '80s

"Still making the hand-crank motion when telling someone to roll down their window."

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Generation X discuss outdated terms and phrases they still use.

Generation X (those born from 1965-1980) grew up in a totally different era than Generation Z (those born between 1997-2012). As latchkey kids, Gen Xers were notoriously allowed to roam free and consume pop culture during a more analog time.

Although it wasn't that long ago—times are different. In a Reddit community, Gen Xers discussed the outdated habits, words, and phrases they just can't shake from their 1980s childhoodseven though they are outdated.

These are 20 relatable realizations Gen Xers had about their outdated habits:

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"I was on the phone with a friend, someone else called in and I answered the second call, but I reflexively told the second person I was "on the other line *long distance* and asked if I could call them back later. When I realized later what I said, I was like WTF, I have unlimited minutes across all of North America, this isn't 1987." - RockTheGlobe

"Still making the hand-crank motion when telling someone to roll down their window." - UnderwhelmingAF

"Cutting the plastic soda separators in a six or twelve pack - to save the dolphins." - sutter333

"Asking for unleaded gas." - BigBadBinky

"Asking to be sat in the non-smoking section." - ncwv44b

"I still 'nuke' things in the microwave." - myslothisslow

"I put the popcorn in and set the timer and then stand there and listen for the pops to slow down to then stop the microwave. My kids put popcorn in, push the button that says "popcorn", and walk away... and when they come back the popcorn is properly popped, not burnt, not many unpopped kernels left. But I still don't trust the popcorn button. It's newfangled." - Magerimoje

"There are 'big internet' tasks that I’ll always prefer to do on the laptop instead of my phone: Booking flights, comparing vacation rentals or hotels, and emails that require more than a few sentences for a reply." - Lanky_Rhubarb1900

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"I overuse ellipses..." - ACorania

"Answering the phone like I have no idea who it is." - Hot_Rock

"Answering the phone, period." - WeathermanOnTheTown

"Oxford comma for life. It’s fallen out of favor with even the 'grammar check' in Microsoft Word recommending against it." - jax2love

"Saying I need to 'record' a program." - Sunshine2625

"Actually talking in to my phone, like a phone." - 1nfiniteAutomaton

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"I refer to everything as a record, regardless of what media it’s on." - TravelerMSY

"Saying my phone number twice when leaving a message at work." - VintageFashion4Ever

"In my job I make reference to the mental 'Rolodex' and in the past few years none of the youngers know wtf that is 😂." - Mountain_Will_8252

"Keeping a check book. I’m like the last holdout of everyone I know but I just can’t let go. Lol." - bdiddy621

"I have to buy a physical recording (usually CD) I can't just do the mp3. I just get nervous I'll delete the file. My kids make fun of me. And I don't use Spotify. I'll listen to what I want to. Not suggestion from a website." - International-Mix425

"Millennial raised by GenX siblings, last night I told my kids to 'wait a second while I rewind this video' on the YouTube app on our tv." - AnagramHeroJohnCanto

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