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This mom 'nagged' her husband about their baby's seat belt and it could have saved his life.

Paying attention to all of the minute details of car seat safety isn't exactly an exciting task, but it's far more important than a lot of parents may realize.

The nurse and mother Rebecca Tafaro Boyer recently shared a Facebook post proving why her attention to car seat safety is not "nagging" and may have saved her baby's life.


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This afternoon around 2:15, I got a text from my hubby during their trip to Walgreens. My nagging wife reply was to correct William’s position in the car seat - the straps were too loose and the chest clip was way too low. And because I know my husband, I’m sure that he laughed at me and rolled his eyes before tightening the car seat and fixing the chest clip.

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Just a few hours later, Boyer received a phone call that confirmed that her meticulousness about car seats served as a potential life saver.

"At 2:30 my phone rang, my husband’s panicked voice came through the line, 'Honey, we had a car wreck. We are fine, but the car is going to be totaled.' The boys were less than three miles from our house when a woman pulled into oncoming traffic to try and make a quick left turn. David just didn’t have enough time to stop - it could have happened to anyone. He slammed on the brakes at nearly 50 miles an hour before colliding with the front passenger side door of her SUV. My precious little bundle of joy was so well restrained in his car seat, THAT HE DIDN’T EVEN WAKE UP."

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While Boyer's husband suffered a broken foot from the car accident, baby William was so securely buckled he was able to keep on napping throughout the whole ordeal.

"Even with the impact of the two cars, William only received a minor jolt - so insignificant that he was able to continue on with his nap, and then spend the next two hours flirting with nurses in the Le Bonheur ED. My husband didn’t fare quite as well - his foot is broken in three places, has three dislocated toes, and we go back to the doctor Monday to make sure that he doesn’t need surgery. The car is a loss, but cars can be replaced - my boys can't."

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OUCH.

Her post quickly blew up and was shared by over 2,000 people overnight.

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What a precious bundle of joy.

Her frank discussion of seat belt safety garnered a lot of support from fellow parents who pay attention to strap placement.

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Moral of the story: buckle up your babies, and buckle them right. The risk is not worth the laziness.

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An excellent reminder to show kindness and patience.

Listening to a baby cry during a flight might be aggravating, but it’s nothing compared to the moans, groans, and eyerolls that the baby's parents must endure from other passengers when it happens. No matter what tips and tricks are used to try to soothe a little one’s temperament while 30,000 miles in the air, crying is almost inevitable. So, while having to ease their own child’s anxiety, moms and dads also must suffer being the pariah of the trip. What a nightmare.

Recently, one mom was apparently trying so hard to avoid upsetting her fellow flight members that she went above and beyond to essentially apologize ahead of time if her baby began to cry on its first flight. It was a gesture that, while thoughtful, had folks really feeling for how stressed that poor mom must be.

In a clip posted to his TikTok, one of the passengers—Elliot—explained that the mom handed out small care packages to those nearby.

“She’s already so busy and took the time to make these bags for everyone,” Elliot said, before panning the camera to reveal a Ziplock bag full of candy, along with a note that made him “want to cry.”

The note read: “It’s my first flight. I made a deal to be on my best behaviour—but I can’t make any guarantees. I might cry if I get scared or if my ears start to hurt. Here are some treats to make your flight enjoyable. Thank you for being patient with us. Have a great flight.”

Like Elliot, those who watched the video felt some ambivalence at the well intentioned act. Many felt remorse that she would feel the need to appease people in this way.

“This is so sweet but also … kind of breaks my heart that we live in a world in which parents feel the need to do that.”

“Because jerk people have shamed parents into believing that they need to apologize for their kids' absolutely normal behavior. What a gem of a mom.”

“You know that sweet mom worried about this trip so much.”

“That poor mom probably spent nights awake … nervous about that flight, thinking of ways to keep strangers happy.”

"That's a mom trying so hard."

Many rallied behind the mom, arguing that making others feel more comfortable with her child being on board was in no way her responsibility.

“No mom should be apologizing. Adults can control their emotions … babies not …. Hugging this mom from a distance.”

“Dear new parents: no you don’t have to do this. Your babies have the right to exist. We all know babies cry. We know you try your best.”

Luckily, there are just as many stories of fellow passengers being completely compassionate towards parents with small children—from simply choosing to throw on their headphones during a tantrum (instead of throwing one themselves) to going out of their way to comfort a baby (and taking the load of a parent in the process). These little acts of kindness make more of an impact than we probably realize. Perhaps if we incorporated more of this “it takes a village” mindset, flying could be a little bit more pleasant for everyone involved.

Celebrity

Resurfaced clip shows a star-struck Frankie Muniz meeting Dale Earnhardt Sr.

Muniz is now a professional racer and finished in 10th place at the Daytona 500 yesterday.

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Frankie Muniz meets Dale Earnhardt at the Daytona 500 in 2001.

This past weekend, actor turned professional NASCAR driver Frankie Muniz placed tenth in the iconic Daytona 500 race. It was Muniz's first race of his first full-time season as a NASCAR driver. " I was screaming!" he wrote on X.

The monumental feat has resurfaced an interview of Muniz meeting racing legend Dale Earnhardt Sr. at the Daytona 500 in 2001–hours before he lost his life. For racing fans, February 18, 2001, is a day they will never forget. Dale Earnhardt Sr. was involved in a deadly 3-car crash during the last lap of the race. His death deeply impacted racing, and influenced important changes in safety protocols.

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Muniz filmed a vlog-style video of his experience during the 2001 race, where cameras followed him around. "The Daytona 500. They say it's like the Superbowl of football and the World Series of baseball. You know, the huge race," he says in the video, explaining that he was invited to check out the pit and also ride in a pace car at the event. He gets to meet a number of other racers, including Kenny Schrader–who was racing one of the cars involved in Earnhardt Sr.'s crash.

The video continues with Muniz eerily attending a driver safety meeting. "So we went in, all the drivers were there with their crew captains. It was weird. I never knew that they had to go through that every race," he says.

The video continues, and Muniz meets Jeff Gordon before bumping into Earnhardt Sr. "Dale Earnhardt was right in front of me. He's a legend,. Seven Winston Cup championships. I was actually a little nervous to meet him, but he was really nice. He was really cool. He was like, 'Oh I love your show,' and I was like, 'Oh thanks.' I told him good luck," Muniz says.

He goes on to share how meaningful the encounter was to him. "It was an honor to meet him. To meet another actor is no big deal. It's like 'Oh they're normal, just like me.' But to meet a sports star or NASCAR racer, it's just different," he says. "I become a fan all of a sudden."

Besides finding success as a professional racecar driver, Muniz has continued his acting career. Most recently, it was announced that Malcolm in the Middle will be getting a highly-anticipated reboot on Disney+. Munis helped make the announcement on Instagram, where he shared, "I have been waiting for this moment for 18 years! [since the series finale]. Let's find out where Malcolm and his family are now."

Actor Bryan Cranston also makes an appearance in the video, where he adds, "It's been 25 years since we premiered Malcolm in the Middle. I'm so excited...that I may have peed. Just a little bit. Excuse me."

The series will return with 4 episodes on the streaming channel that will reunite the original cast, including Jane Kaczmarek, per Variety. "Malcolm (Muniz) and his daughter are drawn into the family’s chaos when Hal (Cranston) and Lois (Kaczmarek) demand his presence for their 40th wedding anniversary party," the publication shared. An air date has not been announced, but fans will be eagerly waiting.

Science

Innovative farm in Virginia can grow 4 million pounds of strawberries on less than one acre

This method uses 97 percent less land and up to 90 percent less water than conventional farming.

A new way to grow strawberries with less land, less water, and more berries.

Strawberry farm harvests aren't something most of us calculate on a regular basis (or ever at all), but the numbers from a strawberry farm in Richmond, Virginia, are staggering enough to make it worth an old-school word problem. If the average American eats 8 pounds of strawberries a year, and an average strawberry farm yields approximately 20,000 pounds of berries per acre, how many people could a 200-acre strawberry field feed?

I won't make you do the math. The answer is 500,000 people. But what if a crop that size, providing enough strawberries for half a million people, could be grown on just one acre instead of 200? It's possible. You just have to go—or rather grow—up, up, up.

Indoor vertical farm company Plenty Unlimited knows a lot about growing up. In fact, it's their entire business model. Instead of the sprawling fields that traditional farming methods require, vertical farms have a much smaller land footprint, utilizing proprietary towers for growing. Plenty has used vertical farming methods to grow greens such as lettuce, kale, spinach and more for years, but now it boasts a vertical berry farm that can yield a whopping 4 million pounds of strawberries on a little less than an acre.

Growing indoors means not being at the mercy of weather or climate inpredictability (barring a storm taking out your building), which is wise in the era of climate change. Unlike a traditional greenhouse which still uses the sun for light, Plenty's indoor vertical farms make use of the latest technology and research on light, pinpointing the wavelengths plants need from the sun to thrive and recreating them with LED lights. Plenty farms also don't use soil, as what plants really need is water and nutrients, which can be provided without soil (and with a lot less water than soil requires). Being able to carefully control water and nutrients means you can more easily control the size, taste and uniformity of the berries you’re growing.

If that sounds like a lot of control, it is. And that idea might freak people out. But when a highly controlled environment means not having to use pesticides and using up to 90% less water than traditional farming, it starts to sound like a solid, sustainable farming innovation.

Plenty even uses AI in its strawberry farm, according to its website:

“Every element of the Plenty Richmond Farm–including temperature, light and humidity–is precisely controlled through proprietary software to create the perfect environment for the strawberry plants to thrive. The farm uses AI to analyze more than 10 million data points each day across its 12 grow rooms, adapting each grow room’s environment to the evolving needs of the plants – creating the perfect environment for Driscoll’s proprietary plants to thrive and optimizing the strawberries’ flavor, texture and size.”

Plenty even has its own patent-pending method of pollinating the strawberry flowers that doesn’t require bees. Even just the fact that this enormous crop of strawberries will be coming from Virginia is notable, since the vast majority of strawberries in the U.S. are grown in California.

strawberry fieldTraditional strawberry farming takes up a lot of land.Photo credit: Canva

Plenty's Richmond farm is currently growing strawberries exclusively for Driscoll’s.

“Partnering with Plenty for the launch of the Richmond Farm allows us to bring our premium strawberries closer to consumers in the Northeast, the largest berry consumption region in the U.S.,” Driscoll’s CEO Soren Bjorn said in a press release. “By combining our 100 years of farming expertise and proprietary varieties along with Plenty’s cutting-edge technology, we can deliver the same consistent flavor and quality our customers love — now grown locally. This new innovative farm is a powerful step forward in continuing to drive category growth in new ways for our customers and consumers.”

Is Plenty’s model the farm of the future? Perhaps it’s one option, at least. The more we grapple with the impact of climate change and outdated, unsustainable farming practices, the more innovative ideas we’ll need to feed the masses. If they can get 4 million pounds of strawberries out of an acre of land, what else is possible?

Woman listens to Cowboy Carter to prove it didn't deserve to win Grammy. She changes her mind.

“Y’all saying Beyoncé deserved to win I’ll happily listen to every single song and give you my honest opinion on them.”

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Woman listens to 'Cowboy Carter' after bashing Grammy win

Beyoncé winning a Grammy for Album of the Year and Best Country Album became the talk of social media with many upset that the multi-platinum star won the coveted award. There were conspiracy theories floating about saying everything from Jay-Z paid $1,000 to each Grammy voter to people saying the artist sold her soul. The critiques were abundant and mostly centered around people thinking the album wasn't country enough to be country or not good enough to be Album of the Year.

Many of the critiques mention her hit song Texas Hold 'Em as proof of their claims about the album not fitting into the country genre. From my observation of the discourse that dominated social media in the days after the Grammys was that most people were upset that their favorite singers didn't win. Dayshnae was one of those people visibly upset when Beyoncé won Album of the Year instead of Taylor Swift, who has won the award four times previously.

Dayshnae recorded herself watching the results and uploaded it to social media. In the short 37 second clip you hear the award announced and she immediately responds, "oh my god you've got to be kidding me. Nobody even listens to the album."

@dayshh_nae My reaction to the Grammys Album of the year announcement. #grammys2025 #albumoftheyear ♬ original sound - Dayshhnae ✨

After it was discovered that the music lover had never actually listened to the album she was sure didn't deserve a Grammy, people encouraged her to give it a listen. Instead of being upset and doubling down on her critique of music she never heard, Dayshnae decided to not only accept the challenge but to record her raw reaction to each song.

The thing about Beyoncé's most recent albums is the songs tell a story as a collection each building from the one before. Listeners can't simply pluck out one song to get a feel for the entire album since it's designed to be listened to in order to get the full effect of the story being told. Dayshnae gave it a listen and immediately was not a fan of the first song on the album. She rated the song a 4 out of 10 but she was not deterred.

@dayshh_nae Replying to @Matthew Day 1! Reaction is around 1:37. #cowboycarter #albumreaction ♬ original sound - Dayshhnae ✨

But commenters insisted that before she moved too far into the album she needed the backstory on why Beyoncé created a country album in the first place to have a deeper understanding of the lyrics. The new Beyoncé listener was floored after learning of the harsh treatment Beyoncé received at the 2016 CMAs when she was invited to sing with The Chicks. As she moves through the album she becomes visibly emotional when she gets to "16 Carriages," a song that seemingly details the struggle Beyoncé went through as a child star and her cold reception from the country music world.

"Oh. My. Heavens...I know some of you love track one and track two but track three just sold me. That was so powerful, intimate, emotional, raw. I'm listening to that again. I'm listening to that multiple times. Who was she talking about at the end? Wow. Wow," the new listener says.

@dayshh_nae Replying to @Ellis Reese I tried to post this yesterday. I had no idea about the 2016 CMAs. #cowboycarter #albumreview ♬ original sound - Dayshhnae ✨

Dayshnae's reaction to Willie Nelson's interlude left her with her mouth agape. Pushing through to the next songs, it didn't take long for her to appreciate the album even more. She explains in the beginning of one video that she originally stopped listening to Beyoncé a few years ago when her own music taste changed but diving back into the new album style the musician creates is requiring a bit more from her.

"Now what I've quickly realized is that it was way more than just simply seeing if I liked the album. There is history to unpack in this and that's what I've been learning along the way. What I'm going to dive into today before we listen to 'Protector' is that country music derived from enslaved African Americans, and derived from blues and gospel that the ancestors would sing while they were enslaved," Dayshnae reveals.

@dayshh_nae Replying to @Anna this is my favorite so far. Although with how much I have learned, I need to listen to track 1 &2 again! #cowboycarter #albumreview #dayswithdayshh #lifewithdayshh ♬ original sound - Dayshhnae ✨

The series is still going as the Cowboy Carter album has 27 songs and Dayshnae didn't start the series until a few days after the Grammy's in early February. She's currently listening to one song per day and giving a breakdown of what she thinks along with what she has learned. Her tune about Beyoncé's win has completely changed as she continues to make her way through the storybook-like album. People can't seem to get enough over her genuine openness to listening to the album and possibly changing her opinion.

"This is a fascinating journey to observe. Thank you for taking this exploration so seriously and respectfully," one person writes.

"LOVE THIS SO MUCH. Thank you for seeking to understand," another says.

"I’m so invested in your journey! Reliving my first time listening to Cowboy Carter through you rn," someone else shares.

"Arriving at the HISTORY of country music by song 4 is monumental! I am so impressed. No words. You’re becoming a country music aficionado," another person chimes in.

"I personally am enjoying you doing these videos and taking the time to learn something new and expand your knowledge. So, good for you. The album is really rich. I’m still learning from it a year on," someone adds.

While Beyoncé may not be everyone's favorite artist, it's clear that there was a lot of thought and vulnerability that went into this album. Commenters also pointed out how she used Cowboy Carter to spotlight the work of Black country artists that were not getting airtime on country radio stations like Shaboozy and Tanner Adell. Since Dayshnae isn't finished with the album, it's not clear what her overall rating will be but the journey is a wholesome one and an example of what it means to be open to changing your mind.

Chase might just be the clingiest cat ever.

Cats are quirky. We all know this.

But those of us who have had multiple cats throughout our lives know that some cats are quirkier than others. Maybe they like to sleep with their face in a shoe (true story). Maybe they won't stop tearing into bags of Styrofoam packing peanuts and eating them, necessitating a shipping business to switch to cornstarch-based packaging (also true story). Maybe they can catch a crumpled-up piece of paper you toss into the air with their paws and bring it to you in their mouth like a dog playing fetch (awww, I miss that cat).

Or maybe their unique quirk is that they have to be velcroed to someone's body every minute of every day.

That's Chase the cat in a nutshell—super sweet, but super clingy.

Chase belongs to Kareem and Fifi of the TikTok channel @dontstopmeowing. The couple have become Internet famous for their three very chill cats. Their "spaw day" videos showing how their cats—Chase, Skye, and Millie—get pampered went viral in 2021, and they've gained a huge following sharing life with their cats.

All three are adorable, but Chase—oh, Chase is a special one. I've seen some clingy cats before, but nothing like this.

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Same Cat, Diff Day #fyp #foryou #foryoupage

Literally clingy, as in "won't stop clinging to the human." How many cats like to be carried around like a baby? Not many, I'd guess.

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Not exactly your average kitty #fyp #foryou #foryoupage

When Chase wants Mommy, chase wants Mommy.

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Where did he learn to be so clingy? 😭 #fyp #foryou #foryoupage

Of course, Chase doesn't always want Mommy. Sometimes it's Daddy's turn for all the lovin'.

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Fifi shares videos of her attempting to train the clinginess out of Chase, which are hilarious. This one has been viewed 57 million times.

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This is why he rips my clothes 😭 #fyp #foryou #foryoupage

She even dubbed the viral audio of a toddler video—"I just a baby!"—that fits perfectly with Chase's huggy antics.

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He really thinks he’s a baby #fyp #foryou #foryoupage

Oh Chase. You're just too much.

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I can’t stop laughing 😭 #fyp #foryou #foryoupage

And just because it's so dang cute, check out this video of Chase meeting a baby for the first time. (Warning: Wicked adorable baby giggles incoming. Hold onto your ovaries if you have 'em.)

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Who’s reaction was your favorite? #fyp #foryou #foryoupage

The couple welcomed their first human baby, Taj, in January 2024 and Chase certainly had a hard time adjusting.


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That guilty face at the end..#fyp #forypu #foryoupage

But today, it looks like Kareem, Fifi, Taj, Chase, Skye, and Millie are all one big happy family.

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Not him parking his car 😭 #fyp #foryou #foryoupage

Keep up with the family on their TikTok and YouTube.


This article originally appeared three years ago.