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A couple struggling to get pregnant celebrates the surprise birthย  of identical triplet boys

"Three beautiful identical triplet boys starting their NICU journey ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™"

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Identical triplets Enzo, Anjo and Cruz Page.

A family in England welcomed an early Christmas present. Shannon, 29, and Ace Page, 28, welcomed surprise identical triplets through in vitro fertilization (IVF) after first being told by doctors that they were only expecting twins. "Life has changed so much since the boys were born as they are now our main priority and all that matters now," Shannon tells Upworthy. "It feels amazing to finally be parents, especially going from feeling like we were never going to be parents to having 3 beautiful boys."

The couple from Wincanton in Somerset, tried to conceive naturally for years before they had their first embryo implanted in March 2024. They began documenting their pregnancy journey on TikTok. During their 7-week scan, where they were told by doctors that twins were on the way.

However, at the couple's 9-week scan, they found out Shannon was also carrying baby #3. An ultrasound technician tells Shannon and Ace that there are three "really nice, strong heartbeats."

โ€œThere was only supposed to be one as they transferred one embryo, we are so happy๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™,โ€ the couple wrote on TikTok after sharing a video of the ultrasound.

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When we went for our first IVF scan and had a surprise ๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿ‘ถ #ivf #ivfjourney #triplets #ivfsuccess #infertility

In the couple's next TikTok post, they announced all three babies were boys at a gender reveal party where Shannon and Ace popped balloons that contained blue confetti. Ace excitedly runs over to his group of guy friends, jumping and hugging at the happy news.

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Identical Triplet gender reveal #genderreveal #genderrevealparty #ivf #triplets #identicaltriplets

Soon after, Shannon began experiencing health issues during the pregnancy and stopped posting on TikTok. In the next post, she detailed her scary experience carrying the baby boys to term.

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Our crazy identical triplet journey๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™ #triplets #identicaltriplets #pregnancy #ivf #ivfjourney #nicubaby #neonatal

โ€œAt 17 weeks I kept fainting and this time I was unconscious for a considerable amount of time,โ€ she shared.

Sadly, a later scan found that one of the triplets would likely not make it to Week 21 due to a twin to twin transfusion. The couple were advised by doctors to terminate it in hopes of saving the other two. โ€œThat came with risk of harming them all,โ€ Shannon wrote, โ€œSo we decided to let nature take its course and deal with whatever happened naturally.โ€

On October 6, 2024 (with the boys at 29 weeks and 6 days), she went into laborโ€“defying doctors expectations. She underwent a C-section, and welcomed all 3 brothers into the world: Enzo (who weighed just 2 pounds, 11 ounces), Aljo (2 pounds, 13 ounces) and Cruz (2 pounds, 7 ounces).

"Three beautiful identical triplet boys starting their NICU journey ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™," the couple wrote.

The triplets immediately were moved to the NICU, where they still remain but continue to grow stronger. Cruz contracted and overcame a stomach infection called NEC in mid-November that required him to be isolated from his brothers while taking 3 different antibiotics and going 10 days without feeding. Shannon also shared that baby Enzo is doing well without breathing support, while baby Aljo still requires some breathing support.

All three babies are currently healthy. Although they are not yet home, the brothers are already getting in the holiday spirit. "It would mean the world for us to have the boys home in time for their first Christmas surrounded by family," Shannon tells Upworthy.

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Shannon and Ace dressed all three boys in matching 'First Christmas' onesies, complete with tiny mistletoe beanies.

"Merry Christmas from the boys," they wrote in the video.

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5 ways people are going "All In" this week

From the silly to the sentimental, there are so many ways people like to go โ€œall inโ€ on something. Here are our five favorite examples this week.

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When you hear the words โ€œall in,โ€ what do you think? You might picture a color-coordinated, fairy-themed surprise proposal that took months to create, or maybe you think of a singer who went on stage and nailed the perfect high note in front of everyone (like this girl). Whatever you picture, the idea is the same: Going โ€œall inโ€ means doing something with total commitmentโ€”literally giving it your โ€œallโ€ and going completely over the top. No second guessing, no holding backโ€”just full-throttle enthusiasm with some creativity and flair thrown in. Thatโ€™s how we get those viral internet moments we canโ€™t stop watching.

When people decide to go โ€œall in,โ€ something special usually happens as a result, and weโ€™re here to show you how. This week, weโ€™ve found the very best examples of people going โ€œall inโ€ across the Internetโ€”moments where passion, creativity, and commitment take center stage. Follow along and feel inspired.


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You already know we love a good Hamilton reenactment. This past weekend, though, Hamilton fans took their love for the musical to a whole other level. As theatres released the filmed stage production in honor of the musicalโ€™s tenth anniversary on Broadway, theatre kids everywhere showed up in costume and belted out every single word (itโ€™s okay to sing in the theatre this time, by the way! Hamilton creator and star Lin-Manuel Miranda totally said we could). Some theatres sang along quietly, some chimed in loudly at the emotional parts, and some theatres truly went all in, staging elaborate reproductions of the scenes in the aisles, in time with the music. A bunch of theatre kids totally nerding out together, having fun, and celebrating good art? We love to see it.

Everyone's love of Pumpkin Spice Lattes

@deangelodbyrd Itโ€™s hereeee ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ‚ #pumpkinspicelatte #fall2025 #funnyvideo #silly #funnydance @Starbucks โ™ฌ original sound - DeAngelo

You know it's fall when you start seeing those plastic cups everywhere. That's rightโ€”it's Pumpkin Spice Latte season. Everyone is drinking them. Everyone is posting about them. Everyone is figuring out the perfect PSL pairing, whether that's pumpkin spice matcha lattes or just drinking a PSL curled up on the couch watching some spooky movies. (How about all of the above?)

Here's our recommendation: Pumpkin spice lattes pair perfectly with All In snack barsโ€”specifically the Madagascar Vanilla + Almond option. It's got honey, it's got pumpkin seeds, and it's even got tons of fiber so you're getting some nutrition along with all the deliciousness. Don't take our word for it, though: Click here to try it yourself (for free).

This rendition of the Happy Birthday song

@kamoramakaylee Happy 84th birthday to our dad #tbt โ™ฌ original sound - Kamora

Thereโ€™s singing the Happy Birthday song, and then thereโ€™s singing the Happy Birthday song. This group of sisters did the latter. For their fatherโ€™s birthday, they presented him with a cake (aww) and then launched into an embellished musical production of the last two lines that would put Whitney Houston to shame. The girls truly went all in, but perhaps the best part of this entire video is their dad,sitting wide-eyed at the table and gritting his teeth until the performance is over. (โ€œHeโ€™s fine,โ€ someone said in the comments section. โ€œHe lost his hearing ten birthdays ago.โ€)

Llama costumes

@kristeninmn Some of the costumes from the Minnesota State Fairโ€™s 4-H Llama-Alpaca Costume Contest! #minnesotastatefair #mnstatefair #exploremn #onlyinmn #stpaulminnesota โ™ฌ Mr. Blue Sky - Electric Light Orchestra

Every year at the Minnesota State Fair, the 4-H Llama-Alpaca Costume Contest steals the show. In it, participants dress their llamas in wildly imaginative costumesโ€”everything from a sea anemone to a bucket of popcorn to Buzz Lightyear from the movie Toy Storyโ€”and transform the livestock barn into a whimsical runway. Every glittery cape, hand-painted prop, or themed outfit is a testament to their creativity, their time and effort, and most importantly their love for animals. All of it is on full display and itโ€™s seriously impressive work. You can tell when it comes to their animals (and creativity), Minnesotans donโ€™t hold back.

This dog who's totally faking it.ย 

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The king of drama

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Okay, you have to give this guy some respectโ€”he really doesnโ€™t want his owner to go to work and heโ€™s found an absolutely genius way of showing it. As soon as her alarm goes off in the morning, TikTok creator Cassidy Butler shared that her chihuahua Binky runs to the front door and actually starts faking injuries to get her to stay home with him (and sometimes, she admits, it works). Binky is absolutely committed, holding up his paw as though it were injured, plus shivering and even squinting one eye to show just how injured he is. Heโ€™s almost perfectly convincingโ€”until Cassidy offers to take him outside to play and he momentarily breaks character. Oops! Still, we respect his dedication to the craft.

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A woman talking to people she just met.

Itโ€™s essential to make a great first impression with someone, whether it's a job interview, buying someone a drink at a bar, or serving someone a meal at a restaurant. The problem is that people form a concrete judgment of someone in just seven seconds, which can be incredibly hard to shake.

โ€œHuman beings are built to size each other up quickly,โ€ Psychology Today says. "These first impressions are influenced by a number of factors, such as facial shape, vocal inflection, attractiveness, and general emotional state. People tend to get attached to their initial impressions of others and find it very difficult to change their opinion, even when presented with lots of evidence to the contrary.โ€


While it can feel impossible to combat such a snap judgment, Sally Hogshead says that when we interact with people for the first time, we should only have one question on our minds: โ€œHow can I add value to this person?โ€ Hogshead is a New York Times bestselling author, National Speakers Association Hall of Fame speaker, chief executive officer of How to Fascinate (Fascinate, Inc.), and a former advertising executive.

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Ask yourself: How can I add value to this person?

It makes sense. When someone meets you for the first time, they donโ€™t know anything about you. The other person is asking themselves the big WIIFM: Whatโ€™s in it for me? It feels a little negative to suggest that everyone is out for themselves, but we only have so much time and effort to give to others. What can you bring to the table?

โ€œYou want your listener to come away from the conversation feeling good about their investment of time and energy,โ€ Hogshead writes for Inc. โ€œThe key here is to add value to every interaction, so that youโ€™re not just occupying conversational space.โ€ Hogshead adds that we donโ€™t have a lot of time to gain the other person's attention, so itโ€™s best to start strong. โ€œHereโ€™s the problem with that approach: Today, the average attention span is about nine seconds. Every time you introduce yourself, you have about nine seconds to engage your listener. When it comes to first impressions, a weak start leads to a poor impression.โ€

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If youโ€™re not adding value, youโ€™re taking up space

Value will vary depending on the situation and your desired social outcome. When approaching someone for a drink, you can add value by boosting their self-esteem with a compliment. โ€œI think you have really lovely eyes,โ€ or โ€œIs that an old-fashioned youโ€™re drinking? Youโ€™ve got great taste, they make good ones here.โ€

At a networking event, you can introduce yourself and discuss a recent development in the industry. โ€œHey, Iโ€™m Lisa. Have you heard about how Acme Paper Company is using AI to learn the best trees to cut?โ€ Or, โ€œHey, itโ€™s Malcom, is your company having trouble figuring out which trees to cut? Iโ€™ve found a cool new way to save you time and labor costs.โ€

You can also add value to any person by allowing them to share their thoughts and experiences. When you show genuine interest in someone and let them talk about themselves, they will almost always find you likable. Research has found that asking the first question in a conversation, followed by two follow-ups, dramatically increases your likability.

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It can be disheartening to realize that people often make snap judgments about others that are difficult to overcome, but itโ€™s great to know that, by focusing on how you can benefit another person, you can pull down that wall and give yourself a second chance to make a first impression. Everyone has something valuable to bring to the table, whether youโ€™re inexperienced and can make your superiors feel great by asking them questions or by being able to share your experiences with others to make their lives better. Just know that everyone is open to meeting those who can make their lives better, and you can often be that person.

Sandra visiting Eโ€™s family in Georgia (2023)

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Sandra McAnany isnโ€™t one to sit on the sidelines. A 58-year-old grandmother from Wisconsin, McAnany spends her days teaching soft skills classes to adults and spending time with her family. Outside the classroom, however, sheโ€™s taken on a role thatโ€™s helping people in a big way: serving as a humanitarian parole sponsor and personally taking on the financial responsibility of supporting families fleeing from persecution, violence, and instability.

Since 2023, McAnany has welcomed 17 migrantsโ€”11 adults and six children through the CHNV humanitarian parole program, which allows individuals and families from Cuba, Haiti, Nicaragua and Venezuela to live and work temporarily in the United States with the support of an approved sponsor.


โ€œEveryone has their own views and perspectives, but every person I sponsored is thriving and doing well here,โ€ McAnany said.

McAnany didnโ€™t know any of the parolees before sponsoring them, but she had a commitment to helping families from Venezuela specifically, hoping to reunite them with their families who were already living in the United States. After โ€œpraying a lot along the wayโ€ and communicating with the applicants through WhatsApp, she decided to apply as a sponsor and help them settle into the United States.

โ€œI have a bedroom and a bathroom in my basement,โ€ McAnany says. โ€œMy door is open and will always be open for any of the people I sponsored, if they ever have a need for housing.โ€

Sandraโ€™s granddaughter, Eโ€™s daughter, and another friend at an indoor park (July 2025)

At the time, McAnany decided to volunteer as a sponsor to make friends and help other people through hardship. Now, her mission has grown: Seeing how humanitarian parole programs have changed her parole beneficiariesโ€™ livesโ€”as well as her ownโ€”for the better.

Humanitarian parole: A long history

Humanitarian parole programs are nothing new. Since 1952, both Democratic and Republican administrations have used humanitarian parole to provide a safer, lawful pathway for noncitizens to enter and live temporarily in the United States. In recent years, through different programs, people from Afghanistan, Ukraine, Cuba, Haiti, and other countries have been able to come to the U.S. to escape urgent crises in their own countries, such as political instability or war.

Coming to the United States through humanitarian parole is no easy feat. The process has its own strict criteria and involves extensive applications and vetting for both beneficiaries and their sponsors. Parolees donโ€™t need to qualify for any other immigration benefit like asylum, but they need to meet the standard for humanitarian parole and successfully pass vetting requirements.

According to Refugees International, 532,000 people have been granted parole through the CHNV program.

A life-changing experience

From the moment she met her first parole beneficiaries at the airportโ€”two families โ€”McAnany already knew it would be a life-changing experience. โ€œIt immediately felt like family, like we were lifelong friends,โ€ she said. But she could also sense that it was a culture shock for the parolees. On the way home from the airport, McAnany pulled into a nearby McDonald's and encouraged them to order dinner. Hearing the word โ€œBig Mac,โ€ the families smiled in recognition.

Despite the culture shock, McAnanyโ€™s parole beneficiaries had to adapt quickly to life in the United States. Once they were settled, McAnany worked โ€œnonstopโ€ to help the families acclimate to their new lives, answering questions about school and vaccinations while also helping them create resumes, search for jobs, and find English classes online.

It was through this process that McAnany realized just how resilient people could be, and was amazed โ€œnot only how hard it was for individuals to leave their loved ones behind, but the amount of work they did to come to the country and remain here.โ€ McAnany also realized how fortunate she was to have her own family living nearby. โ€œI canโ€™t imagine any one of us leaving a country and being apart for an unknown length of time,โ€ she said.

Eventually, and as circumstances changedโ€”one of the parolees found a new job in another city, for example, and was able to move out. But no matter the length of time they spent with each other, McAnany says that with every parolee they formed a bond built for life. One woman, who she refers to as โ€˜E,โ€™ has even become โ€œlike an adopted daughter.โ€ McAnany has traveled to Georgia, where E now lives, three times to visit her.

Uncertain ground: Whatโ€™s next for humanitarian parole programs

Despite being a critical part of immigration policy in the United States for the last 73 years, humanitarian parole programs are under threat. Immigrant justice nonprofits Justice Action Center and Human Rights First are currently suing the federal government to protect humanitarian parole programs and allow parole beneficiaries to remain in the country for the duration of their parole. McAnany is a plaintiff in the lawsuit.

One of the ladies Sandra sponsored from Venezuela and her partner during Sandraโ€™s first visit to meet her (December 2023)

Participating in the lawsuit has only further bolstered McAnanyโ€™s belief in and support for humanitarian parole programs. She hopes the lawsuit will be successful, she says, so that parole beneficiaries and their families can finally have some stability.

โ€œWe donโ€™t know what the future is,โ€ she says, โ€œbut I want to be optimistic and hopeful that every person I sponsored will be able to stay here safely in the U.S. and continue to thrive.โ€

This article is part of Upworthyโ€™s โ€œThe Threads Between U.S.โ€ series that highlights what we have in common thanks to the generous support from the Levi Strauss Foundation, whose grantmaking is committed to creating a culture of belonging.


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A British Blue cat. Street cats in the alley.

Legend has it, and bear with me, that cats have a psychic secret society that only cats know about and can explain. It's not quite as crazy as it sounds. A woman named Mel Moon went viral on social media after telling the harrowing tale of her British Blue kitty, Wade, who had gone missing.

Moon passionately asks with her strong British accent, "Right, is this a coincidence or is there something to this crazy legend? I'm asking you." She goes on to explain what happened. "Okay a few days ago, my cat went missing." She flashes to a photo of the sassy grey cat. "There he is, the absolute d--khead. Anyway, I was devastated, downward spiral, couldn't cope. Did everything the RSPCA told me to do. Put his litter outside. Food. Water. Clothes with my scent on it. Went out searching at dusk. Went out searching at dawn. Wasn't going to bed until 5:30 in the morning because of that absolute prick, right? Would he come back? I was beyond worried, it was crazy."


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Missing cat? Try the Japanese missing cat methodโ€ฆ

What she says next is truly thrilling. "And then someone left me a comment and asked 'Have you tried the Japanese Missing Cat Method?' I've never heard of this method, but apparently what you've got to do is this. You've basically got to go out onto the street, find a stray or street cat. Crouch down to its level and whisper to it that you've lost your cat. Describe your cat in detail, give the cat your cat's name, and then tell the cat how much your cat means to you and then give it a reward. Kind of like a retainer fee, right?"

Here's how Moon claims it works. "That cat will then go and find your cat. So I did that. As if people didn't think I'm crazy enough. I'm out in my back garden talking to my patio cats like, 'Please, I've lost my British Blue. His name is Wade. I've had him for three years, he means the world to me. I'll do anything if you bring him back, please! Here's some ham, here's some turkey - please bring him home.'"

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She looks straight into the camera as her eyes widen. "Well I s--t you not. Ten minutes after I did that, this prick starts running down the street screaming for me." She flashes to an emotional picture of her holding Wade. "Ten minutes after I sent this little cat off to find mine, this one rocks up at my door. Is this a coincidence? Have you heard of the Japanese Missing Cat Theory? Because it's a real legend, and oh my God. If it hadn't happened to me, I wouldn't believe it. But the prick is back. And totally grounded!"

The over 1,000 commenters on one Facebook post alone seem to totally support this, having had similar experiences. One writes, "Yes! We were told that the fastest way for our cat to come home was to go out and cuddle/pet a neighborhood cat. She was missing for three days and we had signs up and we would follow leads to try to find her. Only 5 hours after we pet a neighborhood cat, she came home (through a window we left open). Itโ€™s 100% true!"

Another confirms, "It works - I have tried it - asked a cat on the street 'have you seen my kitty - he went out in the morning and has not come back' and it turned and walked and I followed him straight to my cat who was up a tree playing."

On TikTok, the original video has over half a million likes and over ten thousand comments, many of themโ€”of courseโ€”cat memes. One hilariously writes, "โ€˜Wade, look man, you better get home, your mom out here crying handing out deli meatsโ€™ - cats probably."

Not to be outdone, this clever TikToker jokes, "I have never heard this, but my husband swears that they speak to each other. He calls it 'word of meowth.'"

The lore is fascinating, but some are cynical. In a post for Japan Today, Owen McGee pushes back against skeptics, claiming they "might be quick to jump to conclusions, pointing out that there could be any number of reasons explaining why the cat returned home, and that the timing was just sheer coincidence. However, what surprised everyone was the number of responses from other people who said they had similar results with their own lost pets after speaking to stray animals in the area, leaving us wondering if this method might really just work."


Small talk can be painful, but the FORD method can help.

Some people enjoy small talk and are naturally good at it. For others, it feels like mental and emotional torture. There are many reasons why people are nervous about entering social situations where they have to make small talk, such as a work event, a party where they donโ€™t know many people, or at school. Some people donโ€™t enjoy small talk because they get frustrated talking about seemingly unimportant topics.

At the same time, others are shy and afraid theyโ€™ll say the wrong thing or run out of topics of conversation. Psychologists suggest those who are uncomfortable knowing what to say should use the FORD method of conversation starters. Itโ€™s an acronym thatโ€™s an easy way to remember four different topics of conversation that work with just about anyone.


According to Nicole Arzt, M.S., L.M.F.T at Social Self, the FORD acronym stands for Family, Occupation, Recreation and Dreams. Here are some examples of questions that fall under each category.

Family

Just about everyone has a family, so itโ€™s a great way to ask someone to share some information about their personal lives without being too forward. Arzt suggests the following questions when making small talk:

family, small talk, ford method You can ask people about their parents, kids, siblings, grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles, or just family in general.Photo credit: Canva

Do you have any siblings?

How did you two meet? (if you are meeting a couple for the first time)

How old is your child?

How is your____ (sister, brother, mother, etc.) doing since ____ (event that happened?)

Occupation

Just like a family, almost everyone has a job. Or, if they do not, that can be an interesting topic as well. Here are some starter questions you can ask someone about their job.

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What do you do for a living?

How do you like working at _____?

Whatโ€™s your favorite part of your job?

What made you interested in becoming a _____?

Recreation

You can learn a lot about a person after knowing how they spend their free time. Itโ€™s also an excellent way to determine if someone is like-minded and shares the same interests. Here are some questions to get the ball rolling:

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What do you like to do for fun?

Have you watched (or read) ______(popular show/book)?

What are you up to this weekend?

Dreams

Learning someoneโ€™s hope for the future can tell you much about who they are on a deeper level. They may have just told you about their current job or how they spend their time. But, ultimately, what do they wish to do with their lives? Hereโ€™s how to ask someone about their dreams.

hopes and dreams, ford method, small talke Asking people about their hopes and dreams can be a great way to make more meaningful small talk.Photo credit: Canva

Where do you hope to be working in the next few years?

Where would you like to travel?

Whatโ€™s something youโ€™d like to try in the future?

Would you ever consider trying _____ (particular hobby or activity)?

Arzt also notes that you shouldnโ€™t just be an interviewer. You have to talk about yourself, too. In other words, you need a mutual take-and-give. โ€œPay attention to someone else's answers and think about how you can draw from your own experience to connect," she wrote. When you're feeling socially anxious, it can be hard to listen to the other person while also thinking about your own responses, so thinking of the FORD acronym for yourself and having something to share in each category ahead of time can be a way to avoid the dreaded awkward silence that sometimes happens during small talk.

It can also be tricky to know how much you should be talking vs. how much you should be listening. If you're not sure how much to say during a conversation, follow the 43:57 rule. A numbers guy at Gong.io analyzed over 25,000 sales calls with AI and found the perfect speaking-to-listening ratio. Sales soared when the salesperson talked 43% of the time and listened for 57%.

Even though this insight is from business calls, it applies to everyday social interactions. It's really about listening and making the other person feel special. After all, who doesn't love feeling heard and appreciated?

Small talk doesn't have to be torturous, even if it's something you don't look forward to. With a little preparation and some genuine curiosity, it might even become enjoyable as you make new connections with people.

This article originally appeared last year.

Three elderly nuns broke into their old convent and refuse to leave

Three elderly Austrian nuns made a daring escape from their nursing home to return to their shuttered convent. Their decision to flee the Catholic care home was driven by frustration over having their choice taken away and the desire to return to live out their days in the only home they knew.

Sister Bernadette, 88, Sister Regina, 86, and Sister Rita, 82, have lived in the Schloss Goldenstein castle since they were very young adults. The castle was converted into a convent in 1877, and also served as an all-girls Catholic school. Sister Regina arrived at the convent in 1958, followed by Sister Rita around 1962. However, Sister Bernadette has been at the convent since she was a teenager, attending the girls' school. Their love for the Schloss Goldenstein convent runs deep, but their plans to live out their retirement there were abruptly interrupted.


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Before retirement, all of the nuns were teachers at the school, which began accepting boys in 2017, according to the BBC. In 2022, the convent and school were placed under the Archdiocese of Salzburg and the Reichersberg Abbey. The number of nuns continued to dwindle, eventually resulting in the dissolution of the convent in 2024. Still, the three elderly nuns were granted the "lifelong right of residence" in the convent for as long as their mental and physical abilities allowed them to live independently.

But the nuns' plans were upended without warning just before the official dissolution of the convent. They were moved to the Catholic care home without consultation or much choice. This caused the nuns to be sad about their circumstances and resulted in homesickness, so they collectively decided that they were going back home, whether they had permission to do so or not.

Sister Bernadette tells the BBC, "We weren't asked. We had the right to stay here until the end of our lives and that was broken."

The three nuns packed their bags, and with the help of a few former students, they made the trek back to their convent, which had been abandoned. There was no electricity or running water when they returned, and their individual apartments had new locks placed on them. None of this deterred the nuns from returning to their home. They contacted a locksmith to get their doors open, and with the help of the community, the water and electricity have been partially restored.

While the community and nuns are thrilled, Provost Markus Grasl from Reichersberg Abbey, who is the nuns' superior, is far from excited about their return. According to CNN, Provost Grasal exclaims, "The rooms in the monastery are no longer usable and in no way meet the requirements for orderly care. It is clear that an independent life in the Goldenstein Monastery is no longer possible, particularly due to the precarious health situation of the sisters.โ€ He later added in a September statement that he fears the nuns "are overestimating themselves and that a medical emergency may occur.โ€

Turns out Provost Grasal may be the one underestimating not only the nuns, but the community that loves them. Former students have been bringing them groceries and other items that they need. They are checked on often by community members and a local physician.

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One of their former students, Sophie Tauscher, tells the BBC, "Goldenstein without the nuns is just not possible. When they need us, they just have to call us and we will be there, for sure. The nuns here changed so many lives in such a good way."

"I am so pleased to be home," Sister Rita tells the outlet. "I was always homesick at the care home. I am so happy and thankful to be back."

But Sister Bernadette has a bit of a stronger tone, saying, "I have been obedient all my life, but it was too much," before later adding, "Before I die in that old people's home, I would rather go to a meadow and enter eternity that way."

No, this is not a case of old folks not being "with it."

Different generations rarely see eye to eye on many things, but no topic seems to be so heavily debated as how to properly communicate via texting.

In the one camp, youโ€™ve got the youngins who grew up with texting specificallyโ€”Gen Alphas, Gen Zers, and even millennials to a certain extent. In the other camp, youโ€™ve got boomers, Gen Xers, and again, millennials who might not have texted all their lives, but certainly have more working knowledge of basic grammar and written communication.


So whoโ€™s the real authority? Ask a million different people, and youโ€™ll get a million different answers. This is certainly the situation we find ourselves in with this story.

Recently, Jason Saperstone, a 22-year-old publicist in New York City, whose content consists mainly of cheeky, satirical PowerPoint presentations, created one centered on educating his parents on proper texting etiquette. Yes. He was attempting to educate them.

The primary learning point? The โ€œexclamationโ€ or โ€œemphasisโ€ reaction, aka โ€œtapbackโ€ that you can attach to a message. According to Saperstone, his parents were using it wrong.

"Mom and Dad, I love you, but you need to get better at texting," he said at the beginning of his lesson. "So the thing weโ€™re going to be working on today is how to use the emphasis."

According to Saperstone, you react with an emphasis when:

  • You agree with the sender.
  • You find yourself in the same situation.
  • Someone is ignoring you and you want their attention.

Is this news to you? Are you wondering if Gen Z actually understands what the original meaning behind an exclamation point even is? Or any punctuation, for that matter? Youโ€™re not alone.

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Saperstoneโ€™s parents (rightfullyโ€ฆsorry, my bias is showing) thought it should be used to show excitement or enthusiasm. For example, when he let them know that he happened to be in the bar that Alex Cooper, host of the โ€œCall Her Daddyโ€ podcast, was at, his mother used the emphasis tapback because she was โ€œexcitedโ€ for him.

โ€œThat would mean that youโ€™re also at the bar with Alex Cooper," Saperstone argued, saying that she should have โ€œlikedโ€ the message with a thumbโ€™s up. Which, may I add, was previously labeled as "passive aggressiveโ€ by Gen Zโ€ฆso why are we giving them carte blanche on all things text communications?

Luckily for Saperstoneโ€™s parents, folks rallied in the comment section either by agreeing with his momโ€™s interpretationโ€ฆ

โ€œDISAGREE with the presenter and AGREE with mom. The emphasis on the Alex Cooper text conveys โ€˜holy sh**! Thatโ€™s awesome!โ€™โ€

โ€œI kind of agree with Mom here! I use it like โ€˜omg, whaaat?โ€™ Like in response to someone telling me something wild or exciting.โ€

โ€œNot us all agreeing with Mom ๐Ÿ’€ if you send me a thumbs up when I send you exciting news imma cry.โ€

โ€ฆor by declaring that Gen Zers donโ€™t hold ultimate authority on this topic.

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โ€œTaking communication advice from Gen Z is like taking financial advice from Boomers.โ€

โ€œOk emphasis is an exclamation point and in grammar (which hasnโ€™t changed its rules) it expresses excitement or surprise. So the older generation uses it as intended and the younger generation is making up their own rules.โ€

โ€œWhat cracks me up is the fact that he thinks his generation gets to decide the meaning of โ€˜!!โ€™ or any other emoji. Just because thatโ€™s what you have decided thatโ€™s what it means doesnโ€™t mean youโ€™re correct, or that another meaning of it is necessarily wrong. It means different things to different generations, and thatโ€™s actually perfectly ok. ๐Ÿ˜Šโ€

And honestly, itโ€™s the latter point that really hits home here. When it comes to texting, we can all agree to disagree with certain nuances. But in no way, shape, or form does Gen Z get to enforce its own made-up linguistic rules upon the rest of the world. Sorry. You can reclaim low rise jeans if you want, but weโ€™re keeping basic grammar.